Updated, Dec. 4, 11:35 a.m. FOR FAMILIES Contact or Visit: The Alameda County Coroner’s Bureau’s Family Assistance Center at 2425 E. 12th St. or call 510-382-3000. The Oakland Police Department said in a press release that grief counseling and resources are available to families through the center. DONATION SITES The Oakland A’s have set up a site for donations for Oakland Fire Victims that as of Sunday morning has raised $120, 081. The Gray Area Foundation for the Arts has…